communication

Communication is 'the most important' for our lives.It helps making relations,developing personality and to make life successful.
    Relations are based on our behaviour whether its your family , relatives or friends.Communication influences our behaviour.Its usually seen ,people,with  whom we communicate regularly are more close to us. Its a way which bonds us together. Relations become more strong because communication leaves no space for misunderstandings.We can clearfy any thing that is troubling ourselves, on the other hand if we dont then the problem deepens and the time comes when our relations break,and may become enemy.Phone call, letter writing are good and easy ways of communication,its not necessary to meet everyone all the time.One can share feelings,concerns, etc. on phone,write a letter,chat on skype.Thousand ways are there,one should have the will to do. Communication is the only and the best way to understand each other.It leaves no space for misconception.
      Surprisingly communication tones our personality indirectly.As it helps in knowing people around us, enables us to choose our company and make good friends. Good company influences our personality.Its an old saying 'a man is known by the company he keeps' .
        Communication helps us in gaining knowledge about different fields of life.  Communication in any form- makes us aware and helps in leading our lives in better way and fulfilling our goals of life.Thus makes us successful in life  

PRAYER

In our difficult days we pray to GOD please help.When our wish is fulfilled we thank GOD and think HE is great ,he listens to our prayers,HE can do whatever HE wants, any miracle.Ofcours HE does.It is HE whome we can trust and depend upon.
    But when our wish is not fulfilled or uncertainty prevails, we become impatient,start loosing faith,console ourselves by saying its destiny.Now this is the question?
       If every thing is destind,then why we ask for favers from HIM.
         Actually it is very confusing.Its difficult to understand.When every thing is destined then why should we pray? But, then whome should we depend upon?Who will help us in our bad days?If we will depend on destiny,then we will stop making efforts and become lazy.Thats not fair.
      We should believe in Karm .We should do our part and leave the rest on HIM. But when we are in trouble whome should we look upon?Who will help us?We are like small children we cannot survive without HIS help. Someone has truely said,
                               " Someone asked GOD                                      If everything is already written in destiny then why should we wish for something?"
           GOD smiled and said,"Maybe in few places I have written,
                           "As you wish"
 So the jist is we shouldnot forget HIM, HE is always there for us.But big 'but' prevails,when?
     Do your bit and leave everything on HIM.HE is the best judge.
                         Have faith in HIM
                              "THE GOD"
                                                   We believe in YOU

   

birthday

Its not an important occasion anymore.Old age doesent allow you to enjoy,specially when you are sadistic persone.
I had good time on my b.day i would thank my whole family for that.I am specially thankful to my grandson who made it a point to keep me cheerful throughout the day.
CHILDREN  have thepower to creat magic in ones life .God bless them.

Health hazard

Yesterday i have been to one of the malls of Saket.All the malls are verywell decorated to wellcome Diwali.All are full of hustle and bustle,people crazy buying things,but........
After shopping when i came back to the basement parking ,i smelt the peculiar odor in the area and felt stuffy,which is  usually found inside non a.c. or non ventilated areas.
The first thought that came to my mind,was that,how the staff,working there,was surviving.It is HAZARDOUS for their health.I really felt pity for them but could do nothing.
I know this problem is common in mostly all the basement parkings.
Just to avoid any hazard to the human life, i request the concerned  authorities to please install huge size exhaust fans in the area.My humble request, to all the people to please look into the matter.Thanks.

Rameshwaram

Recently i have been to Rameshwaram,which is also spelled as Rameswaram. Its known as daiveey sthal. Auto's there are called daiveey sawari. Its really, a place where you can feel the presence of God.The whole city is so peaceful that all the time your mind is full of devotion.
Rameshwaram is a small town in the Ramanathapuram distt. of Tamil Nadu state. Its in the shape of Conch located on Pamban Island, which is connected to mainland India by Pamban Bridge.
 The temple here is called Ramanathswamy Temple.It is believed that after the victory on Ravana ,when Sri Ram came back with Sitaji and Laxman, He decided to worship Lord Shiva to forgive His sin for killing a brahmin (Ravana) here.
 SriRam asked Hanumanji to bring Shive-Ling. Hanumanji was taking too long so Sitaji  made Shive-Ling with sand . SriRam performed pooja with Sitaji and Laxman.This Shiv-Ling is worshiped in Ramanathswamy Temple along with with two other Shiv-Lingas which were brought by Hanumanji (given to him by Lord Shiva ).
Ramanathswamy Temple was devoted to Lord Shiva and the original  name given was Ramanathswamy Thirukoil.
Rameswarwam is worth visiting. Here we feel that Ramayan is infact history not mythology.

Life a puzzle

               Life is such a complicated thing,that it is difficult to understand whether ones life is good or bad.There are so many factors which determine our life.
          Monetary factor is most determining. Money fulfills our all needs and desires of life,does it mean that richest persone is the happiest person on earth? No doubt it is most important ,but not the only one.
           Family is very important for good life. Good and complete family contributes a lot. Parent's love affection and care make a good family.Their children grow up to be more contented and happy and the cycle goes on.
        But what about luck? Luck plays very important role.When life is going very smoothly suddenly some unexpected thing happens and whole life tumbles down.Now if you are lucky all will be o.k. in short period or for some very very long period. But when it is unending, all is doomed.
         That concludes that nothing is permanent.Life is full of adventures, good or bad, then how can one say,ones life is good or bad?
I am not a writer nor philosopher. Neither good at language, yet i feel like sharing my views, it helps in learning. Different views always help in improvement and creating better aspects of life.

            Life is full of ambitions   (Akankshain) ,good or bad.One lives with them lifelong. Sometimes I feel one lives for them only.                    Earnings are showered on them,but the question is where is the limit.            
       With the birth of a child ambitions start. First of parents then childs ambitions also join them .
       Parents start dreaming the future of the child. Even the child grows up with his/her own dreams or ambitions. But The God has his own.
       The race continues till the child becomes adult and gets his/her destiny.NOW this Destiny is, what was destined for the child.
       Now the question is whether we should try to fulfill our desires or only depend on destiny?
       I personally feel we should do our best and leave the rest on HIM. Its an old saying God helps them those who help themselves.